Before you are ready for marriage, you have a responsibility to develop two critical relationships. You need to have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ, and the next significant relationship is with yourself. Without these two crucial relationships, you will be dealing with marriage from a physical and emotional level, and that alone cannot build a successful marriage. Marriage is not a physical thing, it is spiritual and manifest between a man and a woman. Marriage is not a man idea it is God idea. Marriage was designed to glorify God.
Many people are rushing into marriage because they say they are in love yet love alone will not make your marriage work. It takes more than love to build a successful marriage. Are you comfortable with yourself? Are you happy with who you are? Do you have a relationship with God and with yourself? Have you any personal accomplishment in your life that you are proud of? If not, are you in the process of accomplishing anything worthwhile? Most of you are frustrated with where you are in your personal life and you are looking for marriage to fill that void. I am sorry to disappoint you, but you can’t ask of marriage what it was not designed to give. This is the very reason why most couples are unhappy in your marriage. It takes knowledge to make a marriage work, a matter of fact it takes knowledge to make ANYTHING work. People are walking around broken, and in despair, yet they want to find love. Everyone desire to find love, but what is more important personally knows who God is. Develop a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ and work on developing a relationship with yourself. In this Book, I want to share with you some of the reason why these two important relationships will help prepare you for life, and not just for marriage. However, you will be better understand and prepared for marriage after reading this book.