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I have been misrepresented for too long so let me re-introduce myself to you.

I am a man, not a male and there is a huge difference between the two. Just give me a few minutes of your time, and I will bring clarity to all this confusion about me. I know who I was created to be. I am a man who understands God’s divine plan for my life and walk in it with pride and integrity. I follow the principle of God’s Word concerning how to become a kingdom man. Most of you ladies make the mistake of marrying a male instead of a man. A man should love you not by words only, but by his actions. His actions speak louder than what comes out of his mouth. A man should undersell and over deliver. He will exceed your expectations base based on his actions. A man will keep you safe and protect you. A man is compassionate and caring. A man honors his wife and loves her. A man works and provides for his family. A man loves and cherishes his wife. A man puts his wife first before everyone else except God. A man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2: 24.

A man does not put his mother, sisters, brothers, friends, and family before his wife. He knows they are important to him, but he has a family of his own now. His own family becomes his number one priority. He wants to love you the way you desire to be loved. He wants to lead you in the presence of God.  He wants to be the priest and leader of his home.

A man is not afraid of working for you. He will do whatever it takes as long as it’s moral and honest to add value to your life.

God gave the man work before he gave him a wife. There is a Biblical reason why God did that. God knows a woman desires security and protection from a man. Therefore, he gave the man work first before he gave him a woman. A real woman, a wife in waiting, will always be attracted to a man who is ambitious and hard working. By her nature, she wants to help the man accomplish his visions and goals. She cannot turn that side of her off because she is a helpmate. A real woman is frustrated with a man who does not like to work. She is a helpmate which means it is the man that is responsible for leading her and giving her something to help with.

Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to tend and keep it. Genesis 2:15

God gave the man specific instructions; he must work and protect what was given to him. I’m not that kind of man who wants to stay home and do nothing. The definition of a man cannot be determined by the size of his penis, bearded face, muscles, cars, money, or women. That is Hollywood, not real life. None of these things represent what a man is. Man is a spiritual being who possess a body to occupy the earth. Without his body, man would be illegal and unauthorized to live here.

It’s the character of a man that defines who he is as a man. A man’s character mirrors the characteristics of God. He is created in the image and likeness of his creator.

A woman does not fulfill a real man’s desire, his work and his relationship with God does. If you take away a man’s ability to work, you are taking away the very thing which defines him. Notice what happens when a man has lost his job; he becomes depressed and frustrated. We often see that these type of men become aggressive and even abusive to their wives. Sex does not fulfill a man long term; it only helps to satisfy his sexual desire. If his wife gives him sex every night, in the morning when he wakes up, he is still angry and frustrated because he can’t find work. If you are in a relationship with a person who doesn’t want to work, you are not in a relationship with a man. You are dating, or you married a male, not a man.

Man is passionate about his work.

When a man is happy with his work, he’s more passionate and loving to his wife. His work drives him, it is a big motivation for him. This passion for his work helps to produce a high level of testosterone which gives him the sexual drive to pursue you. A man who is passionate about what he does for a living tends to have a high sexual relationship with his wife. Only a kingdom man who is in the will of God and seeks Gods help daily can control this type of power and passion. Money, power, and sex is the driving force for a male, but for a man of God, it should be different. He desires these things, but the spirit of God in him will keep him humble.

When a real man is ready to find a wife he should go after who he wants and desires. A kingdom man’s mindset is that you are already a wife material. You already did your preparation and ready to be my wife. A kingdom man does not want to date for 2, 3, 4 or 5 years to figure out if you are the one. In the Kingdom of God, you should already be prepared and pure, waiting for the right man to pursue you.

I am looking for a helpmate, a woman that is going to honor and respect me.  See, I know what the bible says about husband love your wife as Christ loved the church.  I can do that; I’m prepared to honor that commitment.  Are you prepared to respect and honor him?  You will never win the heart of a man you will not submit to.

I know most of you are afraid of submission because you think you are going to lose yourself or control by your husband in the process.  Submission gives you power; it is not weakness. It will allow me to show you my vulnerability knowing you will respect me to protect me.

I see all the drama going on right now with this dating and courting, and honestly, I’m scared. Our culture is changing, and it is affecting the kingdom of God when it comes to finding a wife. Most of you have dated so many fake and unqualified men that you can’t recognize what a real one looks and acts like anymore.

I am a man of God who desires to get married I follow Godly principles all my life. I’m now in pursuit of finding a wife, and I have to go through this dating process. I thought the kingdom of God was different from the world.

The Bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and have obtained favor from the Lord.  I want to be favorable, that’s why I’m looking for you. If you are a wife in waiting, I am a man of God, and I am ready to find you.



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